Middle East a little hot June 20, 2009
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So this will be my fourth trip heading to the Middle East. I’m getting the last details tied down and thinking about what’s ahead. There’ve been well wishes and I will need them.
You kinda have to be a tough cookie as an American girl. There are guys who like to grab in Egypt. And, if you’re in Cairo, you’ll never make it on the metro during busy hours if you don’t push. (Cairo was great job training for high school.)
Don’t even start to be flattered by things guys say to you. Yawn and walk away. Actually…they love that. (I think a lot of guys like that.) Act deaf and then if necessary, deck ‘em. Learn phrases like “Alai khaliik, ya akhi.” (God keep you my brother.) In other words—well, I’ll let you pick your own translation for that one.
Oh, and did I mention it is a little hot—ok, maybe a lot hot. I hear Alexandria is cooler than Cairo but that’s not saying much. I looked it up. This week the high is only 95 but that’s just getting started. I’m not expecting AC either. My Arab friends tell me I should at least wear sleeves to my elbows and pants to my ankles. Yikes.
Otherwise the Arab world is awesome.
Cairo PIV: Reconciliation April 4, 2009
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(Part of the Middle Eastern Cities series.)
Fast forward 8 years later. Having left Cairo with no intension of speaking Arabic or being involved with the Middle East again I was a little shocked to be asked one day to teach Arabic. I told Maggie Nassif, a very classy woman, of the National Middle East Language Resource Center (NMELRC) that I would only do it if I could get some help. She did find people to help and we had a great experience.
I finally told her I had a bad experience in Cairo. She was very gracious with me as she is from a suburb of the city. A week or so later she started telling me stories about her family growing up humanizing Cairo for me. And as she spoke, I could feel some of my walls come down. It’s a place where real people with real stories live.
I really hope I get to go back to Cairo this summer. I want to try it again.
See previous posts in the series:
Part III: “Cairo as an Arabic Student: Mosques and Trains”
Cairo Part II: “Cairo for the first time with an Argentine Flair”
Part III: Cairo as an Arabic Student: Mosques and Trains” March 6, 2009
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This was the trip to Cairo that led me to say I wouldn’t tell people I studied Arabic. It would be about 8 years before someone discovered my Arabic past which would consequently lead me back into the Arab world. But that is a story for a different post.
What did I love about Cairo the second time?
My happiest memory was with a guy I hung out with pretty much the whole program. We often bolted from our group and added a touch of Indiana Jones to the experience. We weren’t exactly aloud to ride camels into the sunset next to the pyramids but we did anyway. And despite the travel weariness, the sicknesses, and the whatever-else’s, sitting high on the camels was regal, above the chaos of the city and in touch with the ancient.
Mosque Oasis
The traffic, mud brick, raw meat hanging all could make your first impression of the city wrong. I learned this the day my Arabic professor took us on a tour of the mosques in the city. As we wound through markets, dusty streets, butcheries, he stopped in front of a gate, pushed it open, and there it was–a mosque, an oasis of simplicity, cleanliness, and trees. My little girl heart was enchanted and I wanted to stay just a few more minutes. No wonder Muslims like mosques.
Midnight Train from Luxor
If you are traveling from Luxor to Cairo you could take the midnight train. Our Arabic professor booked our passage with the locals in 2nd class. It all began inocent enough. The train slowed down for 2 min for us to literally throw our bags on the train and jump on as it took off again. But that should have been the excitement for the night until in the middle of a half conscious sleep a crowd of loud villagers got on the train with a man on their shoulders wailing. Having been sick many times already I dreaded the thought of why he wailed so loudly. As the mob passed me, the bottom of his foot touched my arm. I spent the night worried I would die in Egypt of a horrible disease. When we unloaded the train I asked what was wrong with the man. His back was broken. I felt terrible that I had been so worried about my self and spared not even a moment of compasion for him. It prompted me to write a poem entitled, “To Cairo”.
Why did I not want to return?
First, I kept getting sick. We traveled around for a month, washing our clothes in the shower with shampoo. One day I was so sick I couldn’t go get anything to eat that day. I remember trying to fall asleep shaking with hunger wishing I were home. My comrades were sick, too. But all of that may have been easily forgotten.
The trama happened when my Arabic professor asked me and a couple of the guys to go visit a man living in one of the Cairo slums. I dressed modestly and covered my hair. Traveling deeper into Cairo and with the sun setting I noticed less and less women and more and more men. We changed transportation several times and finally crossed train tracks into an area without paved streets where mud caked the ground and lights hung from ropes in the street.
As we entered the neighborhood, several hundred men swarmed around the two guys I was with parading them around like heroes. The men were so tightly packed around my two friends they didn’t notice me getting pushed to the outside of the mob. I started to panic. I tried to call them but they didn’t hear me. It got worse when a man selling vegetables started throwing them at me at full strength hitting me pretty hard. Men called me terrible names.
We did finally make it to the house of the man we were supposed to visit. But when he saw me, he gave the two guys I was with a thorough tongue lashing. He told them they should never bring a woman here at night and they were lucky nothing happened to me. (That scared me even more.) He refused to visit with them, immediately bought out an entire taxi-van so that we would be the only ones and took us directly home. I’ve never been so grateful for the Arab sense of protecting their women in my life and that he would put my safety above whatever else was going on.
I was super happy to get on the plane to go home after that and I didn’t really want to tell anyone I had learned Arabic or had any connections to the Middle East.
See previous posts in the series:
Cairo Part II: “Cairo for the first time with an Argentine Flair”
Cairo Part II “Cairo for the First Time with an Argentine Flair” February 20, 2009
Posted by bookncurls in A Comment, Middle East.Tags: Abraham, Cairo, Giza, Middle East, Moses, Pyramids
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Cairo is depth and breadth.
Giza, now almost a suburb of Cairo, is home to the great pyramids adding a sense of timelessness to the city. The pyramid building era ended in about 2150 BC which means that you are looking at structures that Abraham (approx. 1813-1638 BC) and Moses would have seen passing through the same land. What thoughts pass your mind when you stare at the pyramids? Would any of those same thoughts have passed through Abraham’s mind? You have now shared an experience with Moses. In other words for me, whatever else there is about Cairo, it definitely has depth.
The pyramids and the city sort of press upon each other. You can drive from thriving metropolis to ancient wonder in minutes. I stayed at a swanky sprawling hotel with a large group of BYU students the first time I went outside the city. We often escaped into the air conditioning of the hotel lobby and restaurants after our hot days. I remember a song playing over and over that pulled me into the evening air to gaze at the stars. “Don’t Cry for me Argentina.” After seeing some of its ancientness, the song made me contemplate Cairo’s breadth. Why? The song is from an American made movie about Argentina which I saw for the first time in Israel with Hebrew subtitles and then heard again in Cairo. I guess it reminded me that for many people Cairo isn’t just about pyramids, it’s about their lives which are entwined with the world to whatever degree. Cairo has breadth.
See previous Middle Eastern City posts:
Cairo Part I “Pre-Cairo: My Aunty” February 11, 2009
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This post is part of my Middle Eastern Cities series. See previous posts in the series: Damascus, Poll
The second place finisher in the Middle Eastern cities poll after Damascus was Cairo. I decided to divide the posts for Cairo up into 4 parts since I’ve been there a couple times and have more stories.
Part I “Pre-Cairo: My Aunty”
Part II “Cairo for the First Time with an Argentine Flair”
Part III “Cairo as an Arabic Student: Mosques and Trains”
Part IV “Cairo Reconciliation”
It was the first imprint of Cairo in my memory.
Sitting in a tire swing outside of our house in Utah, I watched my aunt come by one day not long before she left to go on a CASA program to study intensive Arabic for a year in Cairo. She was confident and fun and as I recall liked the color green. I would have been 10 or 11 at the time. We just moved to the United States from Okinawa. I was struggling with the culture shock having no real memory of the US except for a couple visits to family. She was one of my anchors mentoring me through a turbulent time while I was learning slang and how to get along with all American kids. The stories I heard while she was there left an imprint on me. She came home, got married, now has two kids and still speaks both Arabic and Hebrew. The particular stories didn’t stick with me as much as the idea that learning Arabic seems like a good idea. Oh, and you gotta push if you wanna get on the metro.
What I take from this: Cairo is a city you can get used to.
Middle Eastern Cities Poll November 17, 2008
Posted by bookncurls in Middle East.Tags: Baghdad, Cairo, Casablanca, Cities, Damascus, Dubai, Jerusalem, Middle East
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Stories in Cairo August 12, 2009
Posted by bookncurls in A Comment, Middle East.Tags: Cairo, Egypt, Islam, Mosques, Naguib Mahfouz
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Naguib Mahfouz wrote stories about Cairo which won him in 1988 the Nobel Prize in Literature. I was in a bus driving through the streets of Cairo late the other night thinking about him. What makes the chaos and the dirt beautiful or nostalgic? It makes me want to investigate the not so obvious reasons people love the city.
I find the mosques of Cairo inspiring. They reflect a time when Islam was in its grandeur. Islamic codes were strict although bureaucratic. Cleanliness and order once elevated a society which its European neighbors lacked. These mosques have written their own stories in the walls and alcoves of a time past of power and sophistication.